DEC-B-6

 

PART THREE OF MY CHRISTMAS ROAD TRIP: GRAND RAPIDS, JENISON, AND BELDING MICHIGAN AND THE GEELHOED FAMILY REUNIONS AND CHRISTMAS PARTIES

 

December 23--27, 2003

 

            ‘Twas the day and night before Christmas, and all around town, friends and family were gathering for celebrations familiar and profound.

 

            I arrived at Milly and Doug’s house only a few minutes after they went to Mama Mia opening at the newly opened DeVos Center downtown, a centerpiece of the new conventions center.  I worked hard and long at trying to get a pair of tickets to go to JAX to rendezvous with the hunt and the weekend for which I have reservations.  But, with the “walkthrough” scheduled for January 8 no longer going to take place there, there is not a good reason to touch down at the Derwood site on January 8, and I reverted to the direct simpler flight to JAX.  But, now, through the endless menus on the web-based ticket selections, it turns out that the prices have all gone up to unsupportable numbers even after massaging the techniques for on-line ticketing several different ways.  Added to that I received a Christmas Eve lat phone call from Virginia saying she would not want to go to Cumberland since that would be only two days after Margeaux came to visit with her, and she has serious problems now, since Margeaux is talking about wanting to transfer, and she is doing well so far at Fredonia, and might not do so well at University of Iowa, so Virginia wants to be home during that weekend for which we have all the reservations at Cumberland Island.  So, if there is no reason to be in Derwood on the 8th, and interfering reasons for the weekend, we may have to reschedule the whole thing for later, and I will try to make new arrangements to go down by road with the three teams coming by car from Maryland—Dale Kramer, Bill Webster or Craig Schaefer.

 

CHRISTMAS EVE VISIT TO INDIAN LAKES

AT HOWARD CITY

 

            Christmas Eve, Doug and Milly arranged the house for the evening arrival of all the Holtvluwers and the five grandkids, and then we took off to see the Sound Off Recreation new quarters where I met Doug’s partner Jerry Maring.  We then took off to go to see the cottage that Doug and Milly bought in summer.  I called Shirl who has never been up there either, so we stopped by to pick her up.  We drove an hour up 131 to Howard City and around Indian Lakes.  They have a cottage on the lake which is an excavated sand pit that was used to make the cement for the highway, 131 as it was being built, and then the water level was allowed to fill and kept up by two pumps from a swamp supported further by a dike along the corner at which Doug and Milly’s cottage is.  So, they have no neighbors but the wilderness on one side, although the beach at that point is “Association” property where people can come and picnic by boat.  The deepest part of the lake is right in front of their dock (which dock is pulled in now as the lake is covered with an inch or two of ice) which is a hole from which even non-fisherman have regularly caught bass and pike.  It is a “sportsman’s lake” not a fancy recreation lake of the sort that the sailors and power boaters might find most attractive, but it is nearly perfect as a real cottage (not a “home base”) to get away and entertain the grandkids who love it.  It is nice for them and I look forward to coming out to enjoy it in summer.  I know I could get a few bass and pike from a short distance from the dock.  And, it seems like the remembrance of Horsehead Lake of Doc Holkaboer’s retreat which I remember from about the same age as that of the Holtvluwer kids.  Thjer are—I just read in Michael’s “M is for Mitten—an alphabet book of Michigan”—11,637 lakes in Michigan, and anywhere you go to the most remote corner, you are never more than six miles from a lake.  This compares well with the states of Maryland and Virginia where the only lakes are man-made impoundments, but we have the world’s largest estuary and the oceans to make up for the Great Lakes. 

 

            We adjourned from the cottage and took a walk along the dike that holds back the lake along the edge of their lake front cottage.  We saw fresh beaver sign.  We also saw large and pecked out holes in dead trees and we said there would be a possibility of seeing a woodpecker.  Before long, we encountered just such a beast—a large pileated woodpecker, which I shot on film.  I also saw the wild mute swans floating on open leads or standing on the ice.  In addition to the wildlife tour of the cottage environs, I could talk briefly with Shirl and Milly about plans and hopes, and not just about Derwood remodeling.  We went on to Ed’s—a   down-home kind of restaurant where we had lunch amid those who were putting in their last hours before the 2:00 PM quitting time for the holiday.  We got home and set up for the kids who arrived, including Troy and Gwen’s new eight month old baby girl Jennae; both the baby and Britta were a little bit ill, but revived after some Tylenol.  Then Brenda arrived with her and Doug’s three boys: Tony, whom I tease by calling Antoine, Jeff, whom I tease by calling Geoffrey, and Paul whom I tease by calling Pablo.  They all got into the playing well with the toys grandma keeps stocked and then all could go to the new closed in porch behind the house to eat.  The orgy of Christmas presents followed around the tree, but with far less commercial greed and frenzy than the last several such scenes I had witnessed in other places and times.  The kids were really quite good and enjoyed equally the singing of Christmas carols.  Mark has a new job with Eaton Aerospace as a chief QC engineer; Troy has a new job as inventory manager and warehouse relocator for a consolidated electrical supply that acquired his former Fitzpatrick Electric, and Doug is still teaching and coaching basketball and all other sports for the Hudsonville school kids.  Milly is working a “full time”  30-hour week as librarian for Grand Valley State University and Doug is now almost at leisure, working whenever he chooses on Sound Off Systems in which he and his partner Jerry Maring work every job from production to management and have a small business that throws 62% to the bottom line as yield and therefore has many standing offers for the purchase of this profitable motorcycle parts business which makes cruise controls for motorcycles.  So, everything is stable in Jenison and extended environs, with no major health problems, even those associated with growing gradually, perhaps even gracefully, older.

 

CHRISTMAS DAY, 2003

A WHITE CHRISTMAS, IN MICHIGAN, AFTER ALL

 

            The Western Michigan area received an inch of snow over night, just to be sure of a picturesque white Christmas.  It was not quite like the 2001 season with fifty inches in five days, and already this year, we in Maryland have had more snow than have the West Michigan folk.  I drove the Honda Pilot Doug got last year to Sunset manor to help pick up his parents there, and we went to the early service at Cottonwood heights CRC.  I met Jerry van Volkema, whom I had known during the tough times of his big re-operation and intraperitoneal chemotherapy for appendiceal carcinoma, now already enough years back to say he is beyond the danger point.  He told me that he had spent a lot of time fishing with Dough and had talked Doug into buying the Indian Lakes cottage and was surprised at how much Milly had grown to like it.  She will agree, but mainly for the grandkids.  I will have to come to try it out in summer myself.

 

            We arrived home in Jenison as Mark joined, and the Griffioens, including David, who could tell me about his slowly progressing musicology thesis on Shostakovich and the musical themes in the opera “Lady Macbeth of the Mtsensk District.”  He is working as a telemarketer for an arts alumni group after leaving the classic music NPR station.  Also present were Jim Holtvluwer had Mary who were celebrating as well, with the senior Holtvluwers.  When we left from there, I drove the Bronco over to Don and Martheen’s house where we awaited the return of Tom and Sherri and the multiple visits they need to make with the multiple kindreds, given the divorce and several families on Sherri’s side to go to both parents.  I drove up to Belding with David Griffioen in the Bronco, one of its last trip s with me at the helm—a faithful vehicle will now call Belding home.

CHRISTMAS NIGHT AT TOM AND SHERRI’S, WITH SIX—AND MORE—KIDS, WHELPING POMERANIANS, A MARE IN FOAL,

AND PLANS FOR A LOCAL AND CUMBERLAND HUNT BEING

PREPARED FOR ALONG WITH PICTURES OF THE LAST HUNTS, AND A NEW TROPHY FROM LAST YEAR’S BUCK

JUST ARRIV ED ON THE WALL

 

            What a reproductive frenzy of activity at the Belding household of the Griffioen’s!  The big new recent news is as follows:  with three biologic children, (Drew, `5, just having scored his first big buck, and accompanying his Dad to Cumberland next month, and ready to take driver training next spring; Aubrey, a teenager who is the quiet “”Doctor Doolittle” with her hand in all the animals and their obstetrics; and Martina, a soccer star who really understands the game) all doing well, and the three adopted children, (Jinny, very charming but scattered; Mark, a likable kid who has ADD; and Michael, who is being treated for autistic outbursts, but does well with a new medicine Stetra (?) that has started for each), each is getting better adjusted and medicated to help with impulse control.  But, the bigger news is, with these six kids under management, Sherri is expecting a seventh!  It will be do in July.  Their response is “There is room and love enough to accommodate another, and maybe we should be looking to make still more room!”

 

            One of the Pomeranians had a litter, unusually large, of seven pups last week, and now at five days the pups are getting their eyes open.  WE came to see the pups and Aubrey expertly handles them.  There is another Pommy in the garage under a heat lamp which is also going to have pups, as Sherri explained “On Thursday.”  This is 62 days after the Pomeranian was bred to another of their AKC papered studs.  Like the houses they buy and rehab, these dogs have turned out to be highly profitable—with a fetching price of $375 per pup, with one customer paying $750 for a pair.  “We could take the dogs directly to the courthouse and pay all our taxes with them!” said Tom  Sherri is trying to back breed the “Pink” Pommie to a dark poodle, to get a “Pom-Poo” with a Pink and white face, which fetches almost two thousand dollars.  They are not big dogs and are like the Corgi in size and friendliness.  The one Corgi I have had occasion to worry about this week is Cherry, Virginia’s dog, and now the big news from abroad is that Princess Anne’s bull terrier attacked the Queens’ own Corgi of which she is so fond and injured it so badly it had to be put down—a real Christmas bummer story in the House of Windsor.

 

            David Griffioen walked out into the garage and asked “Just how many puppies do you have here?”  Sherri said “Those out there are dogs; the only puppies are these seven in here!”  David replied: “Well he sees puppies nursing out there under the heat lamp in the garage.”  Sherri said: “She isn’t due until Thursday.”  When it all came together at once—“Wait, this IS Thursday!” We ran out to the garage, and there is the dam shivering despite the heat lamp, and the little pups minutes old being nestled. So, Aubrey went in to carry them in to the house where they were put in warmer environments—make nine new Pommie Puppies!

            Amy the mare is in foal.  She is twenty years old and has raced as a thoroughbred often enough to have a track record.  They brought her to a local stud horse whose owner had them sign a lengthy document recognizing that the mare could be hurt in any encounter with the stallion and that they signed a release for any such injury that might occur to the mare.  They then turned the mare in with the stallion who came out to sniff, and the mare just kicked the stuffings out of him!  No such release was signed for a similar injury to the stallion!  SO, they moved her to another stud that successfully “took” and she has had almost a dozen foals before so she should know how this is all done.  So does Aubrey, so that event is due in April.

 

HOUSE TOUR, BY PHOTO ALBUM AND VISIT,

AND CUMBERLAND ISLAND PLANS

 

            Tom and Sherri looked over the Derwood album and the dramatic changes that have taken place since they were there.  They are excited to see it again since it will be beautiful, they assure me.  They also are closing on a house they just contracted to buy, and we went directly to it in Belding.  The house is on a corner lot, and has two small bedrooms and kitchen with a basement and a single bath.  Tom saw that the furnace was new, and that the electrical wiring had been brought to code, and otherwise, he said it looks like any other rental that the tenants have just moved out.  The bank held it, and had it on the market for $68 K, then dropped it to 58 K and abruptly agreed to accept $30 K in cash, knowing that fifty cents on the dollar is better than they can get out of it any other way.  Tom will fix it up within the month and have it rented for something like $600 per month –and it will join the other six houses they are holding in the living trust that covers the kids.  So, they are continuing to do well with some savvy for how to make it happen, despite a down market in real estate, since the Electrolux Company, the biggest employer in Grattan is talking about leaving and the Michigan female Governor is involved trying to keep those jobs here.  But, the continuing work on the local real estate and the breeding of the pups and horses has kept them close to home and solvent.  The one exception to this general rule is the straight drive south by Tom and Drew to Cumberland, for which we already have permission from Drew’s school.

 

            By pre-arrangement on Christmas night, I called Virginia’s sister Kate where she is staying with the whole family except her brothers this Christmas.  She was watching a movie, and I wanted to tell her about all the neat things happening here, about the birth of the puppies, the mare in foal, the six horses and their trailers so that they can haul them up to their cabin about an hour north of here and an invitation to her to visit.  There were also many details about the Cumberland cancellation and the re-booking of the Derwood walkthrough and my probable long distance absence with her friend and fellow traveler in both Ladakh and Malawi, my senior medical student advisee, Kevin Bergman in the somewhat dicey area of Somalia.  In the past, there has been some strain and “drifting” in my absences when she could not call readily; now, that is exactly what she needs, she says.  Not my going away to some place distant and dicey, but giving her some time without calling—although nearly all recent calls have been from her to me, including all of them since I parted from her before Christmas.  I am not sure anything I do can be right here, so it is probably well that my phone has just run out of charge as I am turning over the Bronco into which I have it plugged in, since I only carry it to be available for such incoming calls.  But, I could at least wish her a Happy Christmas in the family that is very supportive, and hope that the extra time and distance that the next months will provide, given the cancellation of both Derwood and Cumberland trips.  There is no time fixed for the next rendezvous, and I will leave that to her initiation.

 

MICHIGAN DEER HUNT:

TWAS THE DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS,

AND ALL IN A TREE,

SAT DREW AND ME—ADD A DOE,

AND THERE’S THREE!

 

            It was just about dawn when we got Aubrey bundled up, and Drew and I went to one box tree stand and Tom and Aubrey to the other with the hand held walkie talkies.  We had just settled in with my looking around through the slits into the woods, and Drew looking forward against a clear snowy field had been plowed before the fall was over.  About a half hour later as the sun was about to rise, Drew and I both spotted three deer that came in right under our stand from the adjacent I where we had not seen them.  I motioned to him to take the one on the left, and I would get the one on the left after he had shot.  I leaned forward into the slot and the big doe in the lead looked right up into the stand and stared at me as I was looking through the scope into the deer at six yards range.  So, I held off, not even letting off the safety, as I was staring at the deer through the scope and awaiting the shot, I heard the shot and saw the hit on the smaller doe standing behind the first one.  Then all three ran off across the field, in rather good order.  Without saying anything else, Drew said “She won’t make it across the field.”  As they got about seventy five yards further, the smaller doe stumbled, and five yards later fell dead.  At that point the big doe stood broadside to me and looked back, I held the cross hairs above the shoulder and thought of trying to drop one from about 150 yards.  When I reluctantly pulled the trigger, the hammer fell on the double lock safety, a screw that keeps the hammer from hitting the cap.  I saw that this happened, but did not fix it, since Drew was now excited and called the other walkie talkie, saying that the doe was down and we could go out for an early breakfast.  The other two deer did not cross in front of Tom and Sherri but crossed the ditch and ran on.  So, I waited until they had got out of the tree, with Aubrey suffering cold feet.  We walked out to the deer, finding not a sign of the hit, without a drop of blood or a cut hair where she had been perfectly hit.  But she had gone the usual 100 yards—deceptively, as always, as though missed—then dropped dead.

 

            The sun was just coming up with a pink-tinged Eastern sky.  I took multiple pictures of Drew and the gang over his deer, the fifth one ( a first—since they had maxxed out at four before) and then fashioned a sling of my parachute cord and a stick I cut from the adjacent woods for a forward neck and forelegs noose to help drag the doe to the van.  I got multiple pictures of each of us in the work part of the dragging the deer back, saying to Drew, “Now, aren’t you glad you didn’t shoot the bigger one that you wanted me to get so I should have to drag the extra fifty pounds?” 

 

            We drove back to their house and hung up the deer for dressing out.  I came in for breakfast which included the fresh tenderloins from the deer almost an hour after it was running with them.  I watched the three or four bits of news about disasters---up to 20,000 people killed in Iran in an earthquake; 119 in China in a natural gas explosion; 19 in California mudslides; five US soldiers in Iraq; and canceled flights from Air France Pairs it LAX flights with suspected terrorists booked.  So, “Peace on Earth” is in short supply this Christmas time, but it has been wonderful for me and those close to me!

 

            Now, I am at Don and Martheen’s house, preparing for the I Christmas party at the church to which I will drive the Bronco for the last time before it goes back to Belding with Tom and family for its new home!

 

THE I CHRISTMAS PARTY

AND RENDEZVOUS IN GRANDVILLE

 

            This was a good event managed, as last year, by all three sisters and their spouses, and all the new families could come to show off the most recent of the offspring.  I met Leah Grace Snoeyink, the second daughter of Kent and Amy, who is now about as old as eight month old Jennae Delong, each of whom I am seeing for the first time.  I also met the next year’s progress on many of the little ones including those I had met the first time last Christmas time.  I enjoyed the dinner, the crafts and games and fish pond for the young ones—all of which took a good deal of time from Milly in wrapping everything, and Shirley, who, as last year, had done the Christmas story and program for the kids.   Doug had brought out a neat trick for the kids in making their own Silly Putty plastic playdough from the mixture of water and Borax into a kind of toy the kids could use to their own imaginations.  I showed a few pictures to Kent Snoeyink, who, each year starts by saying that “Uncle Glenn is larger than life;” then he goes through selected pictures to say how different my life is from his life and how much he enjoys the vicarious experience of several lifetimes’ worth of exotic adventure and experience in each year.  I had watched on Christmas Day as Mark Holtvluwer arranged the 132 selected pictures from the adventures of 2002 that I had stored on hard disc but then could not find in the assortment of two “My Documents” and two labeled “My Pictures.”  Since I had subsequently found them and Mark could review them, he organized them into a slide show that was put into Power Point as an automated presentation. 

 

            In the middle of some of the games there was a bit of a downer, since Craig Vredevoogd came in to announce that the window in his van was smashed, and all other cars should be checked for damage.  When everyone had gone out to check, they found that only their van had been broken into and the reason of that was that Amy’s purse was on the front seat, now missing.  After a few turns around the river bank, it was actually David who went between two dumpsters and found the plastic trash bag in which he found Amy’s purse, with all the cards and personal effects still in it, with no money in it to start with, so there is no lasting damage other than the window and the police report will help with the insurance claim on that.

 

            It was a little difficult to get everyone back into the party spirit after that, but we did have a good experience overall.  AT the end, in cleaning up and carrying out the items that were used in the party, Tom got into the Bronco and Sherri drove their van back.  Aubrey and Drew had a contest as to who would be sitting in the font seat of the Bronco and Aubrey won this round.  Tom said that the Bronco will be well loved and used carefully b y a whole number of rising drivers in the Belding household.  I showed him where the records of all its operations are and the title is left in the console of the Bronco.  So, after 216,000 miles of service, the Bronco and I parted company at the Roosevelt Park CRC where a half century ago I had gone to grade school in the Franklin Christian School.

 

            Ride on, faithful steed!

 

          TWAS TWO DAYS AFTER CHRISTMAS,

AND I HAVE GONE FROM A RUN IN THE MORNING,

TO A LONG RIDE IN THE EVENING!

 

            I am typing this note on a shaky platform as I head southwest into the sunset.  No, I am not on United Air 7649 which I had called at noon to find out was right on time in a departure scheduled to take off into clear sky.  I had gone out for a run and made a first time run along some of the paved bike paths of the new trails in Hager Park after it warmed up with sunrise.  I did laundry, and checked my email, then packed up a box of the excess things I could not carry.  The photo albums had been transferred to Shirley last night from the Bronco and she had gone over them this morning.  Each of my sisters will review them and then they go back with Tom along with the audiotapes which are also making the trip to Cumberland in order to go back up to Maryland with me.  We stopped to see if I could get a few presents for the grandkids to replace those stashed away n storage that I cannot get to, but the same transfer problem would be prominent for moving them across country—although I had expected to be with the twins this weekend.  Now that may be in doubt, depending on my arrival.

 

            I stopped at Shirley’s house and we visited a while as Shirl had gone through all the photo albums and picked out the ones she wanted others to see.  She guided Milly though a couple of these. Then we wandered off at leisure to the Airport, where the regulations are that they can only drop me out front without stopping long.  So, I went in to check in a bag for the flight for which I am an hour and a half early---and find out—the flight is canceled!

 

            I am on a bus to Chicago!

 

            There is no other way, since the next air departure that is not filled up out of GRR is later on Monday night.  So, I will get bumped back to the latest flight from ORD to Dulles, which will have me arriving there, if I make my Chicago connection by road, after midnight, when the Washington Flyer and the Metro will not be operative, stranding me at Dulles with a car carefully stashed at GWU before my departure.  So, all of these great “adventure travels” are subject to change without notice, so we will tune in with you later to see how things are going according to the new plan….

 

            Curious how a few coincidences may play into this event as well.  Much like my mother, my sisters are trying to take care of me.  Martheen had put together some fresh baked cookies and a couple of dessert items in a small plastic tub to be carried along, and Milly insisted on making me a lunch.  If I had not had these in my carryon bag, I would be hungry in the unexpectedly long trip back home.  Further, I had the extra small bottle of water that is labeled “Jet Airways” from the last flight I had taken out of Ladakh—so I have a world wide lunch for my travels.

 

            I had also asked if I could see Eaton, the company for which Mark now works which I had heard was out near the airport.  It is not visible from the airport, but Doug said that it was along Patterson Road near the Chessie rail overhead bridge, which could scarcely be viewed from the airport approach.  After loading on the bus and taking off in a direction I had not expected, I found myself standing in front of Eaton before we got on the I-196 to go west to Holland and Grand Rapids, so I saw it after all.  I also crossed the Grand River and saw the dense groups of salmon fishermen standing in the rapids near the fish ladder—I can relate to catching salmon, but I had done a lot more of it than they seemed to be doing.  ON the other side was the De Vos Center, recently inaugurated.

 

            Well, I am still on the road about four hours later, but looking up at familiar landmarks, since this is the road to O’Hare along the Chicago I had just left only a few days back, so it looks like I am going to make my Chicago connection to Dulles—where I may be stranded in the middle of the weekend night.

 

THE FINAL ATTEMPT TO REACH AT LEAST THE AIRPORTS

NEAR HOME, BEFORE FINDING MY WAY BACK BY WHATEVER MAY STILL BE RUNNING AT MIDNIGHT

 

            I have made it through the check in and security in this “Code Orange Alert” over the holidays in O’Hare and will now sit in the flight to Dulles that is about to carry me to a deserted airport late at night when I believe Michael would have arrived earlier and at a different airport to be seen later this weekend and toured through the Derwood I have not visited in several weeks.  So, I will try to re-group on arrival at home and find out if there are chances for me to see the twins and play with them during the holiday visit.

 

            Well, I knew as soon as I heard about the flight cancellation at GRR that I would be hosed at Dulles, and I was not disappointed in my expectations!  The flight arrived just at midnight, and awaiting the checked in bag meant another half hour wait.   The last of the Washington Flyer buses going to West Falls Church leaves around 10:30 PM, and even the Metro to which it would connect is not running at this hour on weekends.  The Super Shuttle van is shut down some hours ago, so there is no choice except to go to get a taxi at 1000% the cost of the plan I had in mind ---and would have been able to take if the original GRR flight had taken me to ORD for the flight that arrived at 8:15 PM.  So, add to the costs of this glitch in United service the $65.00 cash taxi ride to the Ross Hall of GW to pick up the Audi awaiting me. 

 

            But, the sporty A-4 was a rapid responder to my lonely ride back at 1:45 AM, and it felt like it was going to fill in well the void where the Bronco has been extracted.  I will call Michael and Judy in the morning after I get up to see if we can rendezvous later, since, even though I was driven by their house in McLean where they are staying with her Dad, I do not believe that they would have enjoyed a call at the hour of my arrival in nearby Dulles airport.

 

            So, the late arrival due to a mechanical glitch in United Airlines is the final adventure in the sequence of visits at Christmas time 2003!  Enjoy a coming Happy New Year!

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