04-JUN-A-2

 

THE MEMORIAL HOLIDAY WEEKEND NEAR HOME

 

May 28—June 1, 2004

 

            If I can make myself be heard over the “Voice of the Cicadas” I am in Derwood, alone, on the holiday weekend, amid the din of the forest chorus.

 

I have got up early to go to the attic, hoping to do some serious cleanout while the dumpster is still here, and although full, it will not return once it is emptied on this next time.  So, I struggled through the boxes and dusty stuff, throwing out curtain rods, old rugs, and boxes, a few of which I did not open, since I did not want to find anything I might want to save.  I could only get so far into the attic from the mess the construction folk had made by simply plowing all the boxes and stacked papers over, scrambling them instantly into meaninglessness, while I tried to unscramble only a few of the important parts like the chapters of the travelogs and re-ordering them as best I could with gaps, despite a compulsive completeness of what was stored here when I was not living here.  I found some amazing things including pictures of the kids when they were babies and I when I was wandering the world as a visiting professor everywhere.

 

            And, now for the Good News!  Joe got the call last night, and he is officially representing the USA in the Olympics ParaOlympics as a sprinter and will be going to Athens for three weeks in September.  He is trying hard to get enough funds for Betty and all three kids to accompany him, and since this is a once in a lifetime dream, I am going to try to help in some way to be sure they are there for the first week.  He and I will make our usual holiday early morning run on Memorial Monday as a celebratory run, and the family will make their exploration of Derwood now that it is almost settled.

 

            I ran around the mall on Friday when I found almost no one at work in the afternoon.  I started at the Wellness Center, and ran to the WW II Memorial which I have watched in each stage of its pre-dedication construction, and it is ready for the big ceremony on Saturday.  I saw very intriguing sights as young women pushed old men in wheel chairs, as they stopped, bent over, to greet other men wearing their medals, and would exchange stories.  “I was at Leyte Gulf” one of them told another, and he would reply, “I was in Europe at the Sarne.”  There are volunteers here to take down the stories of the veterans as a contemporary history recording on internet and in the archives to avoid the loss of the stories and history these men carry with them, as the WW II veterans are dying at the rate of 1100 per day.  The old equipment, like Jeeps, tanks, and other classic war memorabilia from an era when wars were uniformly supported by Americans who admired the soldiers and supported them in the way the Saturday Evening Post portraits showed, and there were a lot of people there who had never been anywhere in their lives before or since, but that was the one moment of glory in doing their duty for superiors who called them to a higher cause despite the grubby hardship and unhealthy waste of war in far away places they had never dreamed existed before or heard from since.  These are men of my father’s generation and I saluted several of them as they were wheeled along—the Greatest Generation.

 

MEMORIAL DAY HOLIDAY WEEKEND

MIRRORS LAST FOURTH OF JULY HOLIDAY WEEKEND—

IN REVERSE!

MAY 29, 2004

 

            It was hot on the last Fourth of July as I packed boxes and stashed away everything I would not be able to find for the next year of my life.  I had wrapped up all dishware and stashed away birthday presents, so well hidden from me as to escape a full year of the births they were meant to commemorate. On this Memorial Day the dumpster is still here behind the house, even if full, and I should go up to the attic each morning to see before the heat of the day comes on whether I can get another box or two consigned to the dumpster before it disappears, unlikely to return.

 

            So, I have been doing little nitty gritty items in settling, putting fragile things in the illuminated dining room hutch, despite the absence of a dining room table and chairs.  I have set out about half of my carvings and souvenirs, and brought down all the silk and carpet wall hangings, and the pictures among which we will choose on Thursday at 9:00 AM when Sandy Shelar the Interior Designer comes over to go through the finishing touches.  I turned on the hot tub after a run to see if it could function and found that one of the jets does not work,  The punch out list keeps adding items which we will get to, but the dishwasher is functioning at last after a new plug was made for it, and it is remarkably quiet.  The dryer was connected t a vent to the outside under the deck, so a laundry can be done, although the old unused vent is still protruding through the bricks fate unknown.  The little touches in the Game Room are being filled in, although we await major decorating items like the wall covering and window treatments of a number of the rooms such as powder room and foyer for which they have been awaited.  I have emptied the master bedroom of all but the bureau and slide file cases, which will go to the little office in the future when I can get it ready.

 

            I logged in a run at Lake Needwood amid a swarm of red-eyed cicadas, and found the running log which had stopped in July of 2003 when it was packed up in the Alaska hunt material.  I will just restart it this year without totaling the runs I had missed last year.  I have found a few of the items I had been missing, and will continue to expect more as the boxes are further reduced in numbers and density.  It has not been as hot as it was putting things into boxes, but I feel and hear the same crunchy noises coming out of my lumbar spine when I reverse the process.  The leaves are close overhead and no other structure can be seen from Derwood.  But the leaves overhead are filled with noise and these red eyed dragons are dense as can be.

 

            Under The tire swing, the hard packed ground appears to have been riddled with .38 caliber gunfire.  There are as many as thirty holes within a half meter square.  The estimate on the density of these large red eyed super bugs is over one hundred per square yard, which means that my property holds over a million of them.  What I thought I heard as rain on the skylights turned out to be the bodies of cicadas dropping on them.  I actually slipped on the drifts of the big bodies of these insects in the car seventeen years ago, and I had arrived here in Washington in 1970, two cycles ago, so I am feeling as though these aliens are welcoming me again, the second time.

 

 

A SERENDIPITOUS HOUSEWARMING CELEBRATION

WITH THE WHOLE MONSMA/VANDER TUIG CLAN—

ANOTHER FIRST EVENT!

MAY 30, 2004

 

            I went to church and saw the farewell for Marie Schaap and the salute to two WW II veterans in the congregation, one Glenwood, who looks thirty years older in the last year.  As a spontaneous gesture, Dennis Vander Tuig came over to me and asked “How is your house coming along?”  And I said—“Come on over and see!”  If we were to schedule this event with six month’s notice, we could never find a suitable time for it, but his family was visiting, as Irene Monsma and granddaughter Dina and daughter Ruth were at a wedding of a Jamaican with a very African theme downtown, and George Monsma and his wife were visiting from Grand Rapids and Calvin, having been in Mali for three years beginning over a decade ago.  So, with everyone on base, and the weather threatening rain, he said they would shop for stuff to eat, and I would prepare an indoor or outdoor picnic in a glorious cool cloudy day.  All right!

 

            I had received a return call from Huda Ayas of the International Medicine office at GWU and had tried to get from her the books I had been ordered to read and report on by June 4, after the three day visit that will be booked every moment in the interval so I need to read and report instantly before Virginia arrives tomorrow afternoon.  Huda’s Cohort is meeting all week to go through their mock proposal presentations in a week long residence, while I follow the next week.  One of the people in her Cohort is Linda, who lives in Singapore and wants me to stop to visit and lecture there if and when I come to the Orient the next time.  So, I will try to arrange that meeting while she is here to present her proposal to the ELDP as they are in the final phase of the program I am about to begin.

 

            I drove down town, getting gas in DC for a dime less than advertised in Maryland.  My “check engine light” is—for this merciful moment—off, but I am still supposed to stop back at Liberty Redland and get the plugs replaced.  I skirted the edge of “Rolling Thunder” the traditional Memorial Day weekend congregation of big Harleys’ which this year gets even presidential attention.  As I drove back with the books to be read in hand, I got a call from Dennis VanderTuig, saying they were scattered but picking up items and would be heading in several vehicles to Derwood.  They bought all the fixings, and I had prepared for their Grand House Warming Party—complete with a bottle of Maryland Champagne—the last bottle to be produced, since they are converting the vineyard to Chardonnay. 

 

            It was a wonderful spontaneous gathering, with an assortment of chairs gathered around the added leaf in the new Breakfast Room table, and an assortment of folk filling them. We made the house tour in series, and they all were taken with the Game Room (the expectation is to find a pool table and electronic pinball—but when I say “Great Room” it sounds so pretentious!)  The kitchen gets rave reviews from most who have any culinary instincts, but what they wound up appreciating most were a few randomly pulled photo albums of recent trips to Somaliland and Ethiopia.   We never did get to the Taiwan and Amazon trips which I have stacked up in four incomplete photo albums on which I have tried to work in anticipation of getting the Kuhn book to get started on reports.

 

            The first overnight guests were my sisters who worked hard to set up what we used in kitchen and living space.   The next, equally serendipitous overnight guests were the Schaefers, who are well over due to get the full turnaround in my numbers of visits in their directions.  The next housewarming party came with the whole Monsma/VanderTug clan from church, and the official turnover has happened as appropriate on the holiday, as we have rendezvoused on every holiday, with the Aukwards.  Now, tomorrow, comes the critical homecoming,  Mark Naylor already in residence, with a visit to Margeaux, and a potential opening dinner for Virginia’s aunt and uncle-ex-in-law who had arranged for her the cottage in France for her month of vacation in which to write here dissertation. 

 

            Thereafter, I should be hearing from the Gainesville Geelhoeds about a new grandchild, and then will come a July visit by the San Antonio Geelhoeds with an introduction of the twins to the new Grandkids Room.  So this official start of the summer season is on its way with the new digs open for business, ready or not!

 

BOOKING FOR THE BEGINNING OF THE DOCTORAL GRADUATE COURSE, TO START ALL OVER IN READINGS,

AND REQUIRED WRITINGS ON DEADLINES FOR THE COMING

“BOOT CAMP” RESIDENCY PERIOD IN JUNE

May 31, 2004

 

            Speaking of not being ready, I am now starting to read the several books due for my ELDP doctoral course “residence.”  Even as I waited for the Monsma clan and for the Aukwards to show up in the light drizzle, I was standing under a recessed light and reading the Kuhn text which will be my first required paper, to be sent in on Tuesday after the holiday—ready or not.

 

            This has been one of several passes through Kuhn, most recently in the Philosophy of Medicine course, so I know the content, but need to send back by email a report of some new insight—a delivery of some perspective on demand that I may have to do rather repeatedly during the course of the eight plus years that this final doctoral degree program of mine will entail.

 

HOUSEWARMING INDOOR PICNIC WITH THE AUKWARD FAMILY ON THIS MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND,

FOLLOWING THE “HOUSE COOLING” PARTY LAST JULY 4,

WITH THE AUKWARD FAMILY AND MARK

May 31, 2004

 

            Joe and family arrived after the cool cloudy morning had tuned to a drizzle.  I had worked on the readings and put away the fifth photo album of the year, ending the packs of pictures from my Taiwan tour, not yet having touched the three volumes that follow from the Amazon photo extravaganza nor following events.  If I do not keep up with the records of the photo barrage, I could get overwhelmed by a backlog, and this is only of the last two months!

 

            Joe had pulled his hamstring again, and had iced it with the thoughts that we should not go for our long early run. But the kids especially were eager to see the new Derwood and the whole group was on its way for the indoor or outdoor picnic that might offer them a chance to see and “do” Derwood.  And “do it’ they did, with squeals of delight and wonder, they ran through the Game Room fondling everything and playing on the deck and all the new furniture.  Michelle especially went wild with the excitement, and could not keep her hands off the attractions—not just the taxidermy, but also the swinging doors and windows, with which I have been now retracing steps and handprints with Windex.  They had a good time and enjoyed the indoor picnic despite the plans made for the outdoor spread.  The Breakfast Room is quite capable of absorbing a lot of different functions and again I had collected mis-matched chairs from attic and basement and other sources not of concern to kids who have not yet overdosed on Designer catalogs. 

 

            We went out to the tire swing and had the sequence of turns swinging over the hard ground riddled with cicada holes.  We then went to Lake Needwood where we were going to go for a run, but Joe could not get his hamstring to cooperate, and will make an appointment to see my colleague Steve Haas next week.  He has nothing now to compete for since he is on the team and will be going to Athens without doubt, so now would be a good time to focus on damage limitations.  I had talked with him along our twenty minute walk, and even photographed him with cicadas making a free rider association with him.  We packed up and returned, and now I must return to the real work of the world and hit the books, as a new summer is starting, and a new graduate program with it.

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